My wife and I have been through it all when it comes to getting frustrated by mixing modes of operation.

In order for it to work, we've found that we need to stay in our lanes.

If that resonates with you, create job descriptions for you and your life/business partner and clearly outline who's in charge of what.

Then practice Jocko's advice of 'Cover and Move' and support each other as you do your respective thangs.

Picture you all doing this for 3 months.. heck even 1 month.

How much less stressful would that be?

How much would your friends and family benefit?